To be a successful coach, you must let go of the agenda. The client is right, in that, she is the expert in her life. Release yourself from feeling Continue…
Blame vs Responsibility
Forgiveness and taking responsibility are the keys to overcoming cycles of blame. The blame game may be against others or an internal battle Continue…
Why ‘Should’ is a Dirty Word
We all encounter the question, “should I do this or that?” The word “should” is sign of self doubt. Everyone experiences doubt. Continue…
Is Coaching an Art or a Science?
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There are 2 problems with this question. The first is that science and art are not polar opposites, and the second is with the question itself. Continue…
Coaching Is Not Mind Reading
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Coaches are unable to read their clients’ minds. Unless the coach detach from his own world view, he may project his own dis-empowering perspectives onto the client. Continue…
Personalization – A Negative Perspective
In this audio we discuss “Personalization” – the state of being or belief in which you perceive that everything people do or say is a reaction to you. Continue…
Do You Really Listen?
Listening and Hearing are not the same thing. Hearing is the physiological process of registering sound waves, any noise or sound in our presence we will hear. Continue…
Responsibly is Key
The ideal coaching client is one that takes responsibility for themselves, for their actions and for their thoughts. Continue…
Invisible Action
Sometimes in coaching it can be hard to see change and action. Action can sometimes be invisible such as a change in attitude. Continue…
Action vs. Delay
Learn how to motivate coaching clients when action can’t be sustained. Help clients understand if they are delaying action. Continue…