If you encourage rational thoughts, you just tend to dismiss things with logic, but emotions do not respond to logic. Often they react to logic, but they do not respond. Emotion is a very sensitive thing and it works in a way that we sometimes do not comprehend. If we have never really studied or tried to understand what it is to feel life, and never really opened and allowed ourselves to be sensitive, then emotional things are very frightening and embarrassing to us.
Decision Making
Similarly a decision is processed at two levels: Head way & Heart way
While individual moment in which either Emotion led or Rationale led thinking happens, seem to a large extent, to be happening independent of the other; both these approaches are irreplaceably essential and can be made to collaborate. Experience seems to suggest that such coherence makes for a ‗wholesome‘ decision.