A Coaching Power Tool By Warren Dix
Personal Change Coach, NETHERLANDS
The expression “Need to vs. Get To” was frequently used by a client. They didn’t realize that any attitude they had—one that was based on a “need to”—made the perspective shift virtually impossible. Understanding the limitations of the language that led to a fixed mindset became the focus of this multi-layered session, which only addressed the beliefs or perspectives maintained after that. Again using the quote, start with your thoughts. That prompts the question, “Why is there a disconnect?” The short answer is that our diversity of viewpoints is what makes us special. We develop via a variety of lessons and subsequent insights. Our diversity of viewpoints is what makes us special, but what do we genuinely “Need to vs. Get To”?